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Peconic Bay Yacht Club

Nestled in the North Fork’s Peconic Bay and Long Island wine country, the Peconic Bay Yacht Club offers beautiful facilities for events and celebrations.  With spectacular views and versatile grounds the Peconic Bay Yacht Club is the perfect setting to host grand or intimate weddings, private concerts, corporate forums, or special events.  The property offers a waterfront lawn, a private marina, an exquisite indoor ballroom, lounge, private tasting room, and panoramic view from the terrace.

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Inside or out, a wedding at the Peconic Bay Yacht Club is a romantic affair.  The manicured grounds and great lawn overlooking the Peconic Bay are ideal for your picturesque ceremony or tented reception.  The building offers a variety of venues to accommodate your party’s style and guest list. 

The Point:   Let the stunning views be your backdrop as you exchange your vows under the arbor on The Point at the Peconic Bay Yacht Club.

The Ballroom: Overlooking the marina, The Ballroom is ideal for your larger parties and designed for dinner and dancing in the traditional style.

The Lounge : Located on the main floor, The Lounge is a stately setting to welcome guest or enjoy a quiet moment beside a roaring fire and tranquil views.

The Gallery & Terrace: Situated on the second floor of the Club, The Gallery & Terrace offers panoramic water views. This space is perfect for cocktail receptions, indoor ceremonies, or intimate dinners and dancing.

The Tasting Room: The Tasting Room offers access to the Wine Cellar, Bar Room and Chef’s Table for your most intimate dinners or events. Enjoy wine tasting with your guests in the Cellar and bespoke entertaining in the Bar Room followed by fireside dining at the Robbins Wolfe Chef’s Table.

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Revel in unparalleled water views and exceptional amenities while hosting your next private event. The Peconic Bay Yacht Club offers state of the art technology and professional acoustical engineering to create a perfect venue for your private concert, executive retreat, corporate meeting, or sponsored event. With outstanding cuisine provided by Robbins Wolfe, and personalized service for your guests each event can be tailored to accommodate any type of client needs.  Inquire for more details on booking your next corporate or special event.

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Cruise: North Fork of Long Island

Saturday, july 8, 2023 - friday, july 14, 2023, the city island yacht club and harlem yacht club have organized a 7-day cruise to the north fork of long island, returning along the coast of connecticut..

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• July 8 – 10: Leave City Island & Harlem Yacht Clubs with stops at Oyster Bay, Port Jefferson, and Mattituck
• July 11: Lay day in Mattituck to visit wineries and farmstands within walking distance of the anchorage/marina 
• July 12 – 14: Return to CIYC via Milford and Ziegler’s Cove

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Women commodores make history at north fork yacht clubs.

By Nicholas Grasso

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Sailing is typically regarded a male-dominated pursuit, from professional race teams to boards of directors across organizations. But it appears the North Fork and Shelter Island are bucking this trend, as women currently serve as commodore at four of the five yacht clubs across the area. 

Alyssa Constant of the Orient Yacht Club, Ellen Talbot of the Old Cove Yacht Club and Lisa Reich of the Shelter Island Yacht Club have all been commodore for the past two years, while Mary Kalich of the Mattituck Yacht Club has held the title the past eight.

All four of these women say their boards of trustees and officers, which typically count 14 members, are split fairly equally between men and women, either 50% female or close to it.

Greg Young is the current commodore of the Southold Yacht Club, but before he reached that rank, multiple women had held the seat in recent years. But this trend is unheard of in other locales. Despite the female presence on yacht clubs’ boards, this current predominantly female batch of commodores is a historical anomaly.

“It is unique to be a female commodore,” Ms. Reich said. “I’m only the second [in Shelter Island] since 1886.”

Left: Alyssa Constant is the third female commodore in Orient Yacht Club’s history. | Right: Lisa Reich is the second female commodore in Shelter Island Yacht Club’s 137-year history. (COURTESY PHOTOS)

Commodores are the top figures at yacht clubs, and they typically hold other positions on boards — from officers to vice commodores — before attaining the ultimate title. Many of them, like Ms. Kalich, had a passion for sailing and all things aquatic from an early age. As commodore, she hopes to pass that down to a new generation on the North Fork. 

“Our goal is to expose kids to sailing and the water and give them the opportunity to learn to sail,” Ms. Kalich said. “I say it’s kind of like Little League, except we live on the North Fork so we want our kids to learn how to sail.”

Commodores can also come from wildly different backgrounds that prove useful to any organization. Such was the case of Ms. Constant, a Dallas native who may not yet be an expert sailor, but her love of sailing and the organization led her to volunteer her finance background to the role of treasurer of the Orient Yacht Club.

“I would say I did a lot of change as treasurer more than anything,” said Ms. Constant, the third female commodore in the club’s history. “I brought things into the 21st century from an accounting and finance perspective. As I’ve been on the board, each year we’ve gotten more and more sophisticated in our operations.”

Drawing on the experience they acquire along each rung of the ladder, commodores typically dip their toes in all operations to keep their nonprofits running successfully. While the phrase “yacht club” may ring as socially elite and sequestered from ordinary folks, they are in fact family- and youth-oriented community centers. In addition to organizing clinics to teach children and adults how to sail, commodores help develop activities for landlubbers, to foster community and have fun, such as tie-dye craft events for the kids, bingo nights and adult social events.

On the North Fork and Shelter Island yacht clubs are part of the Peconic Gardiners Junior Sailing Association, which oversees the coed racing circuit across various clubs each season.

The makeup of boys and girls who participate in a yacht club’s junior sailing program varies. Some commodores note an approximate 50-50 split, while Ms. Talbot of the Old Cove club said 61% of her junior racers are boys and 39% are girls.

According to PGJSA secretary Bill Lehnert, boys make up roughly two-thirds of junior sailors across the PGJSA, which also includes four yacht clubs on the South Fork.

If these young female racers continue to participate in the sport in college, there could be more opportunities available to sail, as many colleges offer all-women sailing teams in addition to coed teams.

“That’s how it is at all the PGJSA, it’s an all coed sport,” PGJSA secretary Bill Lehnert said. “And it’s one of the few sports in my opinion that size does not win, smarts wins, tactics.”

For Ms. Reich, gender is typically not a paramount concern with regards to the Shelter Island club’s community or racing efforts. She and her fellow commodores said appealing to as many people in the community as possible is more pressing than recruiting any particular demographic.

However, she noted that Shelter Island currently hosts three all-women regattas throughout the season and has offered all-women and all-girls educational sailing clinics in the past. 

“There are points where, because it is a male-dominated sport, like honestly most sports, you have to do that little extra to make sure women are taken care of and given opportunities to feel welcome and feel secure,” Ms. Reich explained. “It can be a really intense sport and it can be intimidating I think at times for some. So by offering these special clinics and races and things that feel like a safer environment for especially newer sailors, I think that’s a way to keep women in the sport.”

The all-female regattas hosted by the club go beyond welcoming and encouraging the sailors by bolstering the female presence on the sidelines.

“With some of these women’s regattas, we’re also really proud that we’re able to offer an all-women’s race committee,” Ms. Reich said. “To have it run by women, a course set by women, judged by women, that’s kind of unique. It becomes a safe spot, especially for newer and younger women and girls to see that.”

The Shelter Island Yacht Club commodore also noted that Olympic sailor Amanda Clark, who competed in the 2008 and 2012 Olympics, is a club member who has hosted junior sailing clinics in previous seasons. While Ms. Clark is surely an inspirational figure, other community figures can ignite a fire inside the next young person in need of guidance. For Ms. Reich, that was her mother-in-law Olive Reich. Although her father-in-law was a commodore of the Shelter Island Yacht Club, her mother-in-law was the one who knew how to sail and pushed the family into what has become a multi-generational activity.

“There are people that come before us that really mold us and guide us,” Ms. Reich said. “And next thing you know, you’re the commodore.”

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A Cruising Tour Of Eastern Long Island Sound

To the west lies new york harbor, to the east the atlantic ocean, but there is a sweet spot for cruising right in the middle..

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To understand why Long Island Sound is one of the best — and more challenging — cruising grounds in America, it helps to think big. Glacier big. Eons ago, ice a half-mile-thick covered present-day Connecticut and New York and ground to a halt here at the end of the last Ice Age.

As it slowly and sporadically retreated, the glacier's meltwater deposits, known as drift, created one of the biggest tidal estuaries (mixed fresh- and saltwater) on the East Coast. About 113 miles long and 21 miles at its widest point, Long Island Sound is known for its complex underwater geography, mythical tidal currents, and rich fishing grounds. With 600 miles of coastline stretching from New York City to the eastern edges of sandy Long Island and the rocky southern Connecticut shoreline, it offers endless places for both sail- and powerboats to explore, especially at its eastern end.

The variety of boating and destinations here is amazing. Remote, laid-back, and beautiful Block Island, off the eastern tip of Long Island, is one of the top cruising destinations on the eastern seaboard. The Race and Plum Gut off the North Fork of Long Island, where fierce tidal currents are violently squeezed in and out of the Sound twice a day, are legendary for their rough water and great fishing. On Connecticut's south shore (up Mystic River), you can explore historic wooden ships at the Mystic Seaport Museum, or (up the Thames River) watch sinister-looking modern nuclear submarines transiting the Navy's primary East Coast sub base at New London.

Mix in Atlantic wind and swells from the east, countless recreational boats (especially on summer weekends), big-ship commercial traffic (at any time), and occasional fog (common in July and August), and you'll need to stay alert at the helm — and pay attention to tidal currents. But especially in the eastern half of the Sound, a sheltered gunkhole is never too far away when the wind or weather kick up.

Dwight Merriam, retired Navy captain and Connecticut sailor, leads the pack across Long Island Sound. (Photo: Stephen Blakely)

"What's remarkable about the area are the short legs between strikingly different places. In 15 or 20 nautical miles, you go from cityscapes and busy coastal harbors to places where few if any other boaters are to be found," says Dwight Merriam, a Connecticut lawyer and Navy vet who's sailed Long Island Sound for more than five decades. "There's excitement if you want it, but also so many little places to tuck in, both gunkholing and small harbors with deep water."

Heading Out

Charter boat companies offer a flexible range of cruising itineraries to suit their customers' time and interests on the water. For our Long Island loop, we chose to charter in nearby Newport, Rhode Island, a legendary nautical town worthy of its own story, because it worked best logistically for our crew. We opted for a clockwise route, heading south down Narraganset Bay, past sprawling mansions with acres of perfect lawns, bound for Rhode Island's Block Island as our first stop. Our boat is a Beneteau 44 named Summer Dreams .

The sheltered waters of Narraganset Bay come to an end soon after leaving Newport Harbor. As you pass Brenton Point to port and Beavertail Lighthouse to starboard, you enter the open and typically bumpy sea of Rhode Island Sound, and I soon regretted my big breakfast. But we were making good time, had clear weather, and only 17 miles to the lee of Block Island. We soon motored into the island's well-protected Great Salt Pond on the west side. A crisp red-and-white Coast Guard station near the mouth of the harbor greets inbound boats.

Area boaters head to "The Block," Rhode Island's Block Island, 13 miles off the coast and home to a well-marked and lively harbor. (Photo: Stephen Blakely)

Block Island is the quintessential summer retreat, and in full season its harbor is jammed with cruisers, ferries, and commercial fishing boats. Its population triples over the summer, and on busy weekends some 1,500 boats somehow squeeze into Great Salt Pond. But with only 90 transient moorings available to visiting boaters (the lime green ones, owned by the town), be prepared to drop the hook if you don't have a reservation. And be careful if you do, as swinging room is tight and holding in the outer anchorage is poor.

Among the many delights of Block Island is its laid-back vibe, beautiful dunes, rolling moors, high cliffs, and easy accessibility. Only 5 miles long and 1 mile wide, you can explore it by bike, moped, or even on foot. (Don't miss Crescent Beach on the east side, one of the best in New England.) There are two historic brick lighthouses still active, both open to visitors: Southeast Light located on Mohegan Bluffs (the most popular tourist attraction on the island) and North Light, with a small museum.

"Block Island is really a throwback to an earlier time. There are no traffic lights, about half the island is conservation reserve, there are no chain stores or McDonald's," a volunteer at Southeast Lighthouse told us. "We like it that way."

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The next day we motorsailed in light winds 26 miles southwest to the South Fork of New York's Long Island, passing Montauk Point Lighthouse at its eastern tip to port and entering nearby Montauk Harbor, with packed fishing docks to starboard. (It's the largest commercial and sporting fish harbor in New York state.) We took the port channel around the recreational boating hub of Star Island and motored down to the remote southern end of shallow Lake Montauk (hug the channel markers closely and mind the tide), where our little fleet anchored for the night. We kicked back in the warm fall sun and swam off the stern in the brisk Atlantic seawater. That evening, dinghies snaked through the fleet to share group dinners aboard, one of the few nights we did not dine ashore

On Montauk's north side, the harbor area is home to a bustling fishing fleet and just steps from waterfront dining, shopping, and basic angler's lodging. (Photo: Rich Armstrong)

Shelter And Gardiners Islands

Our third day involved a motorsail through light northwest winds to the charming and historic summer enclave of Shelter Island. In colonial times the island was a key harbor for ships in the Triangle Trade between America, Caribbean slave plantations, and Britain.

Shelter Island is nestled between the North and South forks of Long Island and provides the only link between them, via two small car ferries, to the towns of Greenport above and North Haven below. With five good harbors, Shelter Island is a popular rendezvous destination for yacht clubs and cruisers. Just south of Shelter Island is Sag Harbor on the South Fork of Long Island, popular with both boat and land-yacht tourists. The Sag Harbor Whaling and Historical Museum is a must-see.

Shelter Island Yacht Club Dering Harbor, New York. (Photo:  Stephen Blakely)

Just south of Shelter Island is Sag Harbor on the South Fork of Long Island, popular with both boat and land-yacht tourists. The Sag Harbor Whaling and Historical Museum is a must-see.

Crossing The Sound: The Connecticut Coast

The following day we crossed Long Island Sound bound for the Connecticut River. This required carefully timing the tide to transit Plum Gut, the narrow and treacherous passage between Orient Point (the tip of the North Fork of Long Island) and legendary Plum Island.

Plum Gut passage, as "The Cruising Guide to the New England Coast" describes it, "is a vicious piece of water, where seven currents come together and can form a tide rip that can run as high as 10 knots." Adding to the navigational challenge is the New London-Orient Point car ferry that runs through the Gut several times each day. Various other ferries cross Long Island Sound, too, especially to Block Island, so keep an eye out. Of particular note are the high-speed power catamaran ferries that cruise at 15 knots and can sneak up on an unobservant boater.

We had good timing and a glorious sunny day for this leg, with a perfect northwest breeze. The tidal current shot us through the roiling waves as we headed upwind to a small yacht club in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, 10 miles to the north across the Sound. It was the most magnificent sailing of the entire voyage.

The entrance to the Connecticut River is well-marked with two breakwaters and lighthouses befitting the waterway's status. This is the largest source of freshwater entering Long Island Sound and a cruising destination by itself, stretching 400 navigable miles north to the Canadian border. But with a deep current, sometimes opposing tides and wind, shoals, and crossed by various highway and railroad bridges, this seemingly calm river can be tricky due to the strong outgoing flow. The east side of the lower river is shallower and dotted with the remnants of old piers just below the surface.

One of the most popular destinations just up the Connecticut River is the historic harbor town of Essex, a major boatbuilding center in the 1700s with beautiful architecture, cobblestone streets, and genuine colonial charm. Essex is consistently ranked as one the 100 Best Small Towns in America and is a great walking town. The historic Griswold Inn, or "The Griz," was built in 1776 and has a great tap room with a wood stove and occasional piano player.

Mystic Seaport

Returning to the Sound the next day, we turned east for our last destination, north up the Mystic River. The Connecticut shore is dramatically rockier, more complex than New York's sandy Long Island coast, with submerged ledges, small islands, and busy harbors that demand constant attention. This route has several inviting attractions we had to pass without stopping, such as the Niantic River (crossed by a busy Amtrak Bascule Bridge that must be raised to clear anything more than 16 feet) and Thames River farther east. Busy New London Harbor is home to the U.S. Coast Guard Academy, the Navy sub base (dating to 1915), and the USS Nautilus Submarine Force Museum. Keep an eye out for subs while passing New London.

The Mystic River Bascule Bridge was built in 1922 and has a clearance of just 4 feet. (Photo: Stephen Blakely)

Due south of Thames River is "the Race," the short, steep, and deep underwater funnel that squeezes and accelerates powerful tides between Long Island Sound and the open Atlantic. It's marked by Race Rock Lighthouse and is renowned among boaters for its strong rips, standing waves, heavy winds, and traffic. Well-powered motorboats can fight the currents here, as many fishing boats do chasing striped bass and other types of fish that feed in the fast flow. But sailboats must catch a slack or fair tide to get through. The Race is ranked as the second-most challenging cruising water in the Northeastern U.S. (Hell Gate in New York's East River is No. 1), according to CoastalBoating.net .

We avoided The Race entirely by hugging the Connecticut shore, heading east above Fishers Island, and slipping into the mouth of the Mystic River at the town of Noank. A meandering channel takes you past several picture-postcard villages and many packed marinas to the Mystic Seaport Museum. This trip is often delayed by both a pivoting railroad bridge and a small drawbridge just before reaching the museum.

Mystic Seaport, in southeastern Connecticut, is known for its maritime heritage, historic ship-captains’'homes, and excellent dining. (Photo: Getty Images/Denis Tagney Jr.)

But when you clear that last bridge, you enter another era. On the banks of a calm harbor is the Mystic Seaport Museum complex, a meticulous restoration of a 19th-century whaling village with one of the best and most active wooden boat restoration shops in the nation. Among its many historic vessels, the jewel in the collection is Charles W. Morgan, the last surviving 18th-century whaling ship, which recently underwent a massive refit. Every summer, the deck of the Morgan becomes a stage for the annual Moby-Dick Marathon — a nonstop 24-hour reading of Herman Melville's masterpiece.

Our fleet tied up at the museum's marina for visiting boats, which gave us a special treat: private access at night to the museum grounds, historic ships, and buildings after all the busloads of tourists were gone. It's easy to be transported back in time during the day by all the haunting old ships, vintage shipwright stores, and volunteers wandering around in period costume. Alone in the quiet darkness (and occasional fog), it can be ghostly.

Back To Newport

For our last day at sea, we motored south back into the Sound, east-northeast to hug the coast back to Newport. The two big waypoints along here are Watch Hill Passage, another area of strong rip currents. The cruising guide notes that navigation buoys here sometimes disappear: At maximum flow, the rip will pull cans 3 and 5 entirely underwater.

As you pass Watch Hill, the most prominent building is a white mansion on top of the hill, protected from the sea to the east by a fortune's worth of rip-rap. That's Holiday House, the 11,000-square-foot, 8-bedroom retreat of singer-songwriter superstar Taylor Swift when she's not touring.

At the start of a voyage, Newport Harbor is always an exciting place, but at the end of a voyage, swinging on the mooring, watching the sun go down over the water, and reflecting on our adventures, it was a cozy, rewarding, and even nostalgic place — even before we jumped in the dinghy for the last time and returned to land.

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Female yacht club commodores take charge on the North Fork and Shelter Island

It’s 9 a.m. on a steamy Monday morning in late July, and the Mattituck Yacht Club is preparing to host two days of youth sailing regattas. To the uninitiated, a quick glance around reveals minor mayhem, as kids, parents and club staff scurry across the beachfront prepping and rigging a soon-to-be-competitive fleet of about 150 sailboats.

There’s plenty to get done before the 11 a.m. start of the first race, a junior event that will see 8- to 18-year-olds negotiate a roughly 30-minute course on Peconic Bay in their single-person Opti and Laser sailing dinghies, Sunfish sailboats or Club 420 double-handed (two-person) vessels.

Taking it all in, there appear to be a lot of moving parts involved in the process. Slow down and look a little deeper, however, and two points quickly become obvious: First, despite its chaotic appearance, this is a well-choreographed operation. Second, Commodore Mary Kalich is fully in charge, and under her leadership the day’s races will start on time.

Mary Kalich, left, commodore of the Mattituck Yacht Club, speaks with sailors during a skippers' meeting last month. Credit: Randee Daddona

It isn’t long ago that word of a female yacht club commodore — essentially, the president — might have raised some eyebrows here on Long Island, or most anywhere else in the country, for that matter. But that’s not the case on the North Fork and Shelter Island, where four of the five yacht clubs are now headed by women.

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In addition to Kalich, who has been commodore at the Mattituck club for eight years, Ellen Talbot of Old Cove Yacht Club in New Suffolk, Lisa Reich of Shelter Island Yacht Club and Alyssa Constant of Orient Yacht Club are all serving as commodores of their clubs. (There is also at least one other female commodore on the Island, Sundy Schermeyer of the Westhampton Yacht Squadron.)

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What has led to the rise in female commodores in this stretch? The answer, said the commodores interviewed, is likely a combination of factors leading to more opportunities for women to excel in the sailing world, including a strong local coed sailing tradition and greater female participation in junior programs and on college teams.

According to Kalich, a focus on family and kids’ programs may also encourage some women to get involved.

“Most of what we do focuses on family programs and getting kids on the water learning to sail,” said Kalich, 52, an IT consultant who owns multiple Sunfish and Lasers — and also competes in Ironman competitions. “In addition to sailing activities, lessons and regattas at our own 50-family member club, we have evening soccer games, a tie-dye night, plus other activities. It’s all about community, friendship and being on the bays at the clubs in our area.”

"I love, love, love watching the kids learn how to sail," says Mary Kalich, commodore of the Mattituck Yacht Club. Credit: Randee Daddona

That’s not to say the North Fork commodores, who are all volunteers, aren’t busy or that their positions aren’t stressful. As with their counterparts at most any other yacht club, they generally interact with their club’s board of trustees and oversee committee heads to ensure everything functions efficiently and effectively across all programs, whether those be junior sailing, adult sailing, motorboating, financial affairs or the club’s social events, newsletter and website. Among other tasks, they work to bring novel ideas into discussion and implementation, help with scheduling of regattas and events, and check that junior sailors are completing appropriate sailing, boating and safety courses required for fun and competition.

For Kalich, becoming a commodore was a natural progression. She said she grew up sailing in Mattituck and attended the same junior program the club provides today before eventually becoming the club’s head sailing instructor. When her son, Mickey, started sailing at age 7, she grew even more involved, she said, holding committee, board and eventually officer positions prior to being elected commodore. Mickey, now 19, is the club’s race coach.

“I love being the commodore here,” said Kalich, who is not the first woman to hold the post, though she is the longest-serving. “I get to engage with the families, to encourage them and help them decide what the next step is for their kids in our programs, and I wanted to be in this role because I’m sharing my love for the water and sailing. Plus, I love, love, love watching the kids learn how to sail. By reaching out, we bring more people into the sport — both boys and girls. That provides opportunity for more outings so it’s a good outcome for everyone.”

‘More women sailing’

Like Kalich, Reich, commodore of Shelter Island Yacht Club, isn’t surprised to see women taking on more leadership roles within the sailing community. “I think we’re seeing more women sailing and that results in more opportunities these days,” she said. “Those women who rise through the ranks are highly qualified for the commodore position, having served on committees, as board members and officers. All of those positions in our area are volunteer roles, and many women enjoy giving back to their club and community in that capacity, which is likely another factor in the number of women commodores here.”

Lisa Reich, commodore of the Shelter Island Yacht Club. Credit: Randee Daddona

As a youngster, Reich, a retail manager who lives in Brooklyn and spends summers on Shelter Island, said she was active in a Western New York girls club that offered a girls-only sailing program.

“It provided a safe environment that really helped bring females into the boating family,” Reich, 54, said. “There’s now a whole generation of us who have experienced that kind of thoughtful sailing program — and I’m sure that’s resulted in more women sailors today. It’s only natural some would want to expand into leadership roles as they join sailing, boating and yacht clubs.”

Reich’s course to commodore status hit full throttle when her kids entered her club’s junior sailing program at age 6 and she became more involved, she said. Within two years, she said, she was running the youth sailing program. “I think I worked well with others, had some new program ideas and brought tech-side pluses to the table like moving our newsletter and much of our information online, providing a club phone app and finding ways to increase online registration, mostly things I was able to carry over from my business experience,” she said.

From there, Reich said she was tapped to be a trustee and elected to become an officer, working two years each as secretary, treasurer, rear commodore, vice commodore and, now, commodore — the second woman to hold the position in her club since its formation in 1886. Fifteen years ago, Reich developed a ladies’ night at the club. She was also instrumental in setting up two women’s regattas, overseen by a committee of female members.

“I wasn’t elected commodore because I was a woman,” said Reich, who has both a small motorboat and a J/9 daysailer. “Our officers and trustees are selected because they do a great job, are heavily involved in the club and know how to get things done. I’m proud of the progress I’ve made, and I really enjoy giving back to a club that has given so much to me and my family.”

Coed sailing tradition

Being club commodore can be challenging at times because there is so much to do, said Reich, who, with the help of the staff, other officers and volunteers, oversees multiple committees in addition to managing the club’s facilities, waterfront property and members-only restaurant. “We are a large seasonal club with a proud history, 375 members and over 150 kids enrolled in our sailing programs each year,” she said. “So, as commodore, you need to have your toes in the oversight of everything.”

Still, the entire ride has been a “beautiful experience,” said Reich. “And it’s not just about women and girls. When it comes to volunteerism and the importance of giving back and not being afraid to jump in and lend a hand, I love setting a good example for the boys, too. Starting out as commodore, I certainly wasn’t great at all the tasks required, but I learned to surround myself with good people who are sharp in different aspects. It’s important for our kids to learn that, also, and to not be afraid to ask for help when they need it.”

Ellen Talbot, commodore of the Old Cove Yacht Club in New Suffolk. Credit: Randee Daddona

Ellen Talbot, 56, a stay-at-home mom from Riverhead and the third female commodore in the history of the 80-member Old Cove Yacht Club, believes a growing number of college sailing programs with coed and women’s teams may be another reason for the increase in women commodores on the North Fork.

“With several clubs that have youth sailing programs in our area, the kids get off to a great start, and with more opportunity now at the college level they come home with even more knowledge and confidence,” she said. “Also, the North Fork has a long tradition of coed sailing, and I think that has a positive effect.”

At the 300-member Orient Yacht Club, Alyssa Constant, who lives in Pelham but summers in Orient, said she suspects the culture of the North Fork has played a key role in the rise of its women commodores.

“We have lifelong Orient residents, plus newcomers, young families and young adults who grew up out here or recently discovered the area,” Constant, 45, said. “It’s a very welcoming community, and being female simply isn’t a barrier to doing anything at a yacht club here —including being commodore. Our club is very relaxed. We don’t have strict rules with attire, there’s no restaurant and our club building was a potato shack before it was a yacht club. Knowing that helps keep us all grounded.”

'A lot of respect'

Constant is the third female commodore in the club’s 90-year history, and she said her strengths matched up with the club’s needs in an interesting way. “I’m an accountant and they needed someone to take over the treasury role, so that’s how I got on the fast track — and it shows that you don’t need to be a great sailor to run this ship. I still consider myself a beginner, in fact,” she said. “My husband is the more experienced sailor in our household.”

Alyssa Constant, commodore at the Orient Yacht Club. Credit: Randee Daddona

Brian Burke, 60, of Mattituck, president of the Peconic Gardiners Junior Sailing Association, said he’s thrilled to see several female commodores in charge at the same time. “We have nine member clubs on the East End and most of them have had a woman commodore or two in the past, but never this many serving at the same time,” he said. “It’s a big step in a good direction.”

Burke said that in terms of being a commodore, he doesn’t see any difference between men and women when it comes to getting things done, but he noted that having a diversity of perspectives and insights is helpful to any sailing organization. He said that many East End junior sailing programs have also seen an increase in the number of female participants in recent years.

As for facing any gender-related challenges in assuming their leadership roles, none of the North Fork female commodores reported any concerns. All of the women, speaking in separate interviews, cited strong support from their boards, trustees, committee heads and membership at large.

“Everyone comes with different ideas and life experiences, which is vital to the health and success of our clubs,” said Constant. “Our members may challenge each other when making decisions, but we all get along really well. There’s a lot of respect.”

“I think having a long tradition of coed sailing helps keep everything in perspective here on the North Fork,” said Talbot. “Gender doesn’t seem an issue at all when it comes to sailing here.”

“Gender issues?” Reich said, laughing. “Not at all, but I have faced challenges because I’m human.”

“That,” said Kalich, “is exactly how things should be.”

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To the uninformed, Long Island is simply the region directly east of New York City. It's the area you need to get through to get to the Hamptons and Fire Island (both are actually on Long Island, and technically Brooklyn and Queens are, too). But when it comes to saying, "I do," Long Island wedding venues are ideal for nearly any type of wedding. On the Island, any day can be a beach day , including your big day. It's full of waterfront settings, from North Shore venues on the Long Island Sound and Peconic River to South Shore spots set on the Atlantic Ocean. The North Fork and Hamptons vineyards offer both rustic and high-end sites for a soiree, and there are Gold Coast mansions so gorgeous they'd even make Daisy Buchanan swoon . And plenty of caterers, like grand ballrooms with large dance floors and country clubs set on pristine golf courses, will excite couples with dreams of more traditional affairs.

There are a few things you'll want to keep in mind when planning your LI wedding. The region is home to all four seasons , which means there's a chance your guests will break a sweat while busting a move in the sand at your outdoor beach reception. Winters are cold, and spring and fall days can be rainy. But if you can deal with the elements, you'll have a picture-perfect day that epitomizes whatever season you're getting married during, regardless of what Mother Nature throws at you.

Having a top-rated team of pros can help ensure you have an unforgettable wedding day. You can start putting yours together on The Knot Marketplace . But one of the first questions they're going to ask is, "Where are you getting married?" Whether you grew up in the area or are looking to have a destination wedding there, you'll want to consider these unique wedding venues on Long Island.

Peconic ay Yacht Club in Southold, New York

If you're looking for a Long Island wedding venue with nautical vibes and just the right amount of elegance, consider this North Fork spot. Set right on the Peconic Bay, this yacht club offers couples the chance to exchange vows and dance for the first time on the perfectly manicured waterfront lawn. You won't need to go crazy creating Instagram-ready installations like flower walls (but you can if you want). This venue has an au-natural one: Couples have access to a private marina for photos. Though the bay serves as the venue's crown jewel, Peconic Bay Yacht Club is a versatile spot. There's also an indoor grand ballroom with marina views ideal for larger parties to eat and dance the night away, rain or shine.

Flowerfield in St. James, New York

A sprawling paradise in Suffolk County, Flowerfield exudes natural charm at every turn. The lush landscape features more than its fair share of backdrops for photos, including a weeping willow, reflection ponds, vineyards and whimsical gardens. On a sunny day, couples can tie the knot in a gazebo overlooking the grounds. The dreamy, 7,600-square-foot ballroom with high, draped ceilings leaves plenty of room for dinner and dancing. The space is bright and ethereal, with floor-to-ceiling windows allowing sunlight to pour in. And guests won't have to wait in a long line to sip signature cocktails—the ballroom has two bars.

Jericho Terrace in Mineola, New York

Couples dreaming of a sleek New York wedding but who don't want to have to hail a cab to get there should look no further than Jericho Terrace . This stylish banquet hall is less than an hour from Manhattan, Brooklyn and Queens. The event space boasts five beautifully appointed ballrooms to choose from based on the size of your wedding and party. The Dome Room is perhaps the most popular. Savor exquisite cuisine and dance the night away beneath the stars, courtesy of a dome-shaped ceiling window offering panoramic views of the sky above. There are also plenty of spaces for an array of photos inside the venue and outdoors, including textured walls and lavish gardens.

Essex Club in Brentwood, New York

True, there are quite a lot of country club wedding venues on Long Island, but the Essex Club is one of the best in the business. The beautifully-manicured grounds are ideal for ceremonies, and we love the elegant indoor event space that can be dressed up or down with your choice of decor. This venue and its accommodating staff wins raves from couples. Says one recent bride: "I don't think there are really any words that can describe how amazing my wedding was here."

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Pavilion at sunken meadow in kings park, new york.

Take advantage of Long Island's beautiful beaches by hosting your wedding on the Sound. The Pavilion at Sunken Meadow is a truly unique wedding venue on Long Island, as it offers ceremonies right in the sand. If you're not the toes-in-the-sand type, you can exchange vows on the terrace and deck area while still getting those Long Island Sound views. The indoor reception space is just as lovely, and you'll be thrilled to learn that the catering here is top-notch.

View in Oakdale, New York

The Lessing family has established itself as one of Long Island's top caterers, and you'll understand why during your first look at this gorgeous wedding venue. It's an ideal ceremony and cocktail hour spot for couples looking for a waterfront wedding. The outdoor area offers sweeping views of the Great South Bay and a 20-slip marina. On a hot or rainy day, guests can view the bay inside the airy dining room—the space features walls full of windows. The interior is also as crisp as the sea breeze. Think stylish white leather chairs, light walls and rich wood undertones. The event space holds up to 250, making View an ideal spot for couples looking for an intimate or mid-size affair.

Oheka Castle in Huntington, New York

You don't have to jet off to Europe to feel like royalty on your wedding day. Long Island's North Shore is home to a castle all its own. Oheka Castle 's ambiance boasts all the Gatsby vibes (The Great Gatsby documentary filmed there, and Taylor Swift also used the mansion for her video Blank Space.). Located smack dab in the middle of NYC and the Hamptons, this reception venue emanates the opulence of both locales. Numerous chandeliers hang from the stately dining room's ceilings, and there are large windows draped with dramatic floor-length curtains. The expansive outdoor grounds of the estate seem endless and include gardens and a patio with far-off views of the Long Island Sound.

Stonebridge Country Club in Smithtown, New York

Couples envisioning a traditional wedding day with all of the modern trimmings will want to give Stonebridge Country Club a look. The perfectly manicured golf course practically sparkles in the sun, and the trees add natural pops of bright colors to photos each fall. Large windows allow the sunlight to shine through inside the white tableclothed dining room. They also let rainy-day couples get married with the same view they would have had if it were 70 and sunny. The dark wood furnishings balance out the airy feel of the indoor space. The neutral, natural aesthetic makes this Long Island wedding venue feel like a blank slate, where couples and their florists can go wild (or not) with blooms.

Three Village Inn in Stony Brook, New York

Nestled in the sleepy village of Stony Brook, this charming, historic inn is renowned for hosting intimate affairs and giving couples the most bang for their buck. The quaint dining room uses long, elegant drapes and dark wooden accents to create a colonial-style ambiance. Couples torn between having a nautical or garden backdrop for their wedding photos have met their match at Three Village Inn . The wedding venue is set along Stony Brook Harbor and also features romantic gardens, giving the newlyweds the best of both worlds (which is exactly what you deserve on your wedding day). It's also a hop, skip and a jump from the Village of Port Jefferson, which features a sizable marina ideal for couples to have a scenic and intimate first look away from guests' excited (but prying) eyes.

Bourne Mansion in Oakdale, New York

This Long Island wedding venue is perfect for couples who don't believe there's such a thing as too much Gatsby. The grand Vanderbilt estate takes guests back to a bygone era. On a sunny day, couples exchange vows on the sprawling lawn with the mansion in the background. After sunset, they can take a dramatic dip-kiss photo in front of the large fountain or columned entryway. Even the bouquet toss can have a little extra drama at Bourne Mansion . A newlywed can fling their flowers from a balcony overlooking the elegant dining room. Not doing a bouquet toss? Make a pact with your new spouse to sneak away to the balcony for just a moment to take in your big day from above.

Windows on the Lake in Lake Ronkonkoma, New York

This budget-friendly Long Island wedding venue doesn't skimp on style or views. Set on Lake Ronkonkoma, the largest freshwater lake on the Island, this venue's scenic background truly captures the region's nautical character. Couples can hold their waterfront wedding ceremony and share their first kiss right on the water. The sweetheart table is typically in front of floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the lake, offering couples a chance to toast to their next chapter as the sun sets in the background. Windows on the Lake is also a noted restaurant on Long Island, so you know the food (one of the most important parts) will be good.

The Mansion at West Sayville in West Sayville, New York

Can't choose between a nautical or opulent mansion wedding? You can have both at this refined waterfront venue. Set in a restored 1909 mansion along the Great South Bay, The Mansion at West Sayville gives couples a chance to host cocktail hour inside a lavish glass-enclosed patio overlooking the sand and bay. The dining room boasts an unpretentious sophistication. Take the dark wooden walls, which offer a departure from the many beige and white-washed banquet halls on the Island. Meanwhile, the cozy fireplace provides couples with another opportunity to add personal touches with decor. Couples also have access to the neighboring historical society's docks for a seafaring-style ceremony and photographs.

East Wind Long Island in Wading River, New York

East Wind Long Island has multiple spaces for your wedding ceremony and reception. But even with the options, each couple's day is all their own—the venue offers a one-wedding-at-a-time experience. The English garden outside of The Cottage is ideal for a romantic outdoor ceremony. Couples can walk down a brick-road aisle and say "I do" underneath a Victorian gazebo. Those with their hearts set on a large black-tie affair will fall head-over-heels for The Estate, a chandelier-filled reception venue with room for more than 300 people. Couples can plan the entire wedding weekend there—an on-site restaurant, Desmond's, is ideal for rehearsal dinners. It's also 20 minutes from Riverhead, where LI's wine country begins, offering guests something to do if they arrive a day or two early.

The Vineyards at Aquebogue in Aquebogue, New York

Celebrate Long Island's famous wine scene by hosting your event at one of its best vineyards. The Vineyards at Aquebogue is one of our favorite unique Long Island wedding venues, as it features a variety of indoor and outdoor event spaces in a rural setting. Exchange vows on the stunning property, with the vines as your backdrop, then enjoy dinner and dancing inside the Grand Ballroom. This venue is a photographer's dream, as there are countless photo backdrops perfect for your portraits. With a capacity of 300 wedding guests, The Vineyards at Aquebogue is an ideal location to celebrate with your nearest and dearest.

Beach Club Estate in Lake Ronkonkoma, New York

Like Windows on the Lake, Beach Club Estate sits on Lake Ronkonkoma. The banquet hall holds up to about 150 guests, so it's best suited for couples looking for a more intimate but still magical indoor or outdoor wedding. On a warm, sunny day, the outdoor lakeside chapel makes for a breathtaking place to put a ring on it. Flowing palm trees typically flank the ceremony space, allowing couples and their guests to feel like they've made a great escape to warmer waters. During the spring and summer months, the beautifully manicured gardens are in full bloom. As fall sets in, expect foliage to add gorgeous pops of color to photographs.

Fox Hollow Catering in Woodbury, New York

Wedding planners picturing a day that's equal parts romantic and contemporary will want to give the Fox Hollow Catering a whirl. The banquet hall has a few locations to choose from, each with unique features sure to add a special touch to your reception. There's the Winter Pavillion with a skylight, Garden Terrace with views of the venue's lush terrain and The Somerly, which is located in the private wing of the venue and feels like it's miles away from Brooklyn. Each area has classic architecture and wooden furnishings, giving couples and their florists license to dream up any type of design.

The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration in Bethpage, New York

Rustic farmhouse meets New York sophistication at this expansive Long Island wedding venue, which was recently purchased by the Lessing's. On their wedding day, couples will have 8,000-square-feet to say "I do," snap thousands of photographs and mingle with guests at The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration . Outside, the sprawling country landscape provides a picturesque spot for an outdoor wedding and endless photo opportunities. The barn has an all-wooden interior and high ceilings. Couples can truly make it their own without worried about the decor clashing with the space's palette. Hang a chandelier from one of the exposed wooden beams, or add romantic ceiling drapes—or both. Anything goes here.

360° East at Montauk Downs in Montauk, New York

Start your new beginning at the place they call "The End." Montauk sits on the Eastern tip of Long Island and is about as far away from the fast-paced life of Manhattan and Queens as you can get. It boasts some of the most majestic water views on earth year-round, and 360° East at Montauk Downs is the perfect wedding venue for couples who believe life is better at the beach. Not even a little rain can ruin the space's beauty on your special day. The indoor area features walls made out of windows, offering aerial panoramic views of the Atlantic. Couples can get photos in front of the iconic Montauk lighthouse and near the dramatic cliffs, which brush up against the ocean. And if sand, sea and lighthouses didn't provide enough photo opportunities, there's also a meticulously manicured golf course on the property to explore with a photographer.

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Enjoy a unique waterfront dining destination, inspired by the historic Windamere built on this North Fork property in the 1890s. Expect a fresh, creative farm-to-table experience with warm hospitality and inspiring views.

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A Look Back

The grand residence at the base of Mattituck Inlet christened Windamere in 1890, opened its doors to summer guests at the dawn of the twentieth century as the North Fork became a sought-after destination for city dwellers. Visitors were in for a treat at the lofty rate of $7 per week. The property boasted a dance hall with a piano, a tennis court, a bowling alley, and a fine dock built for excursions. The lush and bountiful grounds were graced by a gentle wind flowing down the creek, and magnificent sunsets were presented nightly over the inlet. Windamere was known for delightful entertainment for guests and neighboring yacht clubs, most notably a 500-person singing society arriving by train for a midsummer performance on the great lawn.

Photos courtesy of the Southold Historical Society and Mattituck-Laurel Library.

“Harbor Inn on Mattituck Bay” Mattituck, Long Island, NY

View of the Creek from Mattituck Harbor Inn, Mattituck LI, 1919

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Young Farmer’s Camp at Hallockville Museum Farm in Riverhead. (Credit: Katharine Schroeder)

It is never too early to think about where your child might enjoy spending their summer. Whether it’s at a camp learning to ride horses, practicing their sailing or mastering their soccer skills, we’ve cultivated a list of varying summer camps that might just fit what your kid wants to experience during the warmer season.

While our list is deftly that doesn’t mean we detailed every single one being offered around the North Fork, if we missed one be sure to reach out and let us know at [email protected] .

Farm Hands (at Hallockville)

6038 Sound Avenue, Riverhead

• Daily activities include animal and garden care, harvest, cooking and now vs. before on the farm.
• The program is for ages three and four for a minimum of one week and a maximum of seven weeks.
• COVID-19 precautions are taken and masks are required indoors. 

For more information visit Farm Hands website, call 631-298-5292 or email [email protected] .

Hallockville

• Daily activities include circle-time interactions with farm animals, including cows, sheep and chickens, feeding the animals and themed time projects and activities. 
• Six-week summer program for juniors ages five through seven and seniors ages eight through 12.
• COVID-19 policies are implemented and masks are required indoors.

For more information visit Hallockville website , call 631-298-5292 or email [email protected] .

Camp Wonder

269 & 253 Main Road, Aquebogue

• Daily activities include exploring the gardens at PCS East, investigating pond life, climbing trees and wandering the outdoors. 
• A six-week summer program for ages three through six.

For information visit the Peconic Community School website, call 631-779-2934 or email [email protected] .

Peconic Dunes Camp

6375 Soundview Ave, Southold

• Daily activities range from a variety of sports, to learning circles, to boating and swimming, to hosting a carnival, to hands-on environmental tasks and more.
• Running as both a day camp and sleepaway camp, it’s offered for about three months (June through August) for kids ages eight through 15.

For information visit the Peconic Dunes website , call 631-852-8629, or email [email protected] . 

The Child’s Garden

44600 County Road 48, Southold

• Activities include interactive and edible science, arts and crafts, wood working, yoga and more.
• The camp runs for around three months (late June to early September) for ages three through nine (children must be toilet trained).

For information visit The Child’s Garden website or call 631-276-5943.

Peconic Ballet Theatre Camps

71 East Main Street, Riverhead

Summer Ballet: “Encanto”

• Daily classes and rehearsals for eight days that lead to a live performance of “Encanto.” 
• Runs from July 6 to July 15 for ages four through 12 (and up). 

Musical Theatre Camps

• Runs from July 25 to July 29.
• Students take classes in jazz, tap, acting and voice, with an end-of-the-week small, in-studio performance.
• Runs August 1 to August 5.
• Students take classes in jazz, tap, acting and voice with an end-of-the-week small, in-studio performance.
• Runs from August 15 to August 19.
• Students will take classes in jazz, tap, and repertoire from Broadway Shows as well as voice lessons.

Disney Dance Discovery

• Runs from July 18 through July 22 and is designed for the programs’ youngest students.
• Students will take classes in ballet, tap and creative movement, while singing and dancing to their Disney favorites.

Dance Intensives

• For pre-apprentice students it runs from July 18 through July 29, for apprentice students it runs August 1 to August 12 and for the young dancers program it runs from August 10 through August 19. 
• Activities include morning ballet, repertoire classes in the afternoon, and a small, in-studio performance.

For information visit the Peconic Ballet Threate website or call 631-591-1539.

North Fork United Soccer Club

Offered in Laurel & Peconic

• The fun and challenging activities offered will help improve your child’s ball mastery, technical ability and fundamental soccer skills.
• For boys and girls ages four to 15 the program is offered in three weeks of development either July 18 to July 22, August 15 to August 19 or August 22 to August 26.

For information go to the North Fork United Soccer Club website , or email [email protected] .  

Pony Camp at Hedgewood Farm

4000 Main Road, Laurel

• Activities include basic horsemanship and equine caretaking such as bathing, tacking and feeding, as well as practice riding skills while mounting atop one of the safe, experienced school horses.
• Check the website for camp dates
• Ages 5 and up

For information visit the Hedgewood Farm website , call 631-926-3118, or email [email protected] .

Pony Camp at Hidden Lake Farms

37250 County Road 48, Southold

• Activities include grooming and handling, horse care, horse related crafts and games, painting ponies, horse/pony costume parties and more. Campers will also receive a daily private pony ride. 
• Begins June 4 through the end of August and classes might be limited due to COVID-19 restrictions.
• Ages 5 and up.

For information visit the Hidden Lake Farms website or call 631-495-3000.

Junior Sailing Program

165 North Parish Drive, Southol d

• There are seven programs based on the sailor’s age, but ages five through 18 are accommodated. There are a variety of on-shore and on-boat activities that vary depending on your program.
• Twelve hours a week for eight weeks during July and August. 

For information visit Southold Yacht Club website , call 631-765-5629 or email [email protected] .

Mattituck Yacht Club

9462 Peconic Bay Boulevard, Mattituck

• For both new and returning sailors ages 5 to 18 there are both morning and afternoon programs available. (Note: There are a limited number of spots open.). 
• You can sign up for three different programs. The first is the “Full Season Pass,” where your child sails five days a week from June 27 to August 19. The second is the two or three-week programs starting June 27, July 11 and August 1. The third is the “Introduction to Sailing” program, which is for children turning five or six by Dec. 31, 2022 and offers two, three, four or eight weeks of classes starting on June 27, July 11 or August 1.

For information visit the Mattituck Yacht Club website , call 917-334-6639 or email [email protected] .

The Little Red Barn

353 Manor Lane, Jamesport

• A summer baby farm animal and pony camp is offered for ages 5 and up for full and half days, which features pony rides, lessons and more.

Visit the Little Red Barn website , or call/text 631-566-1690 to make reservations.

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Peconic Boat Club

Spanning the entire East End, the Peconic Water Sports Boat Club gives you unlimited access to our fleet of Cobalts, Scouts, and Hurricanes! All this comes without the headaches of boat ownership or having to go through a rental process each time. Get out on the water faster and on your schedule. 

Experience A Beautiful Day On The Bay

Our fleet is built around providing the best experience you can have on the Bay. Hop in one of our  Cobalt  or  Scout  boats and captain your own beautiful afternoon with family and friends, bring home fish dinner, or take the kids out tubing and water skiing; our boats can handle it all.

We accept all levels of experience! Each membership includes one on one training sessions to help you enjoy your membership safely and to its fullest potential.

Our multi-location boat club memberships give you access to our locations around through the East End of Long Island with unlimited access to our fleet.

Includes access to our North Fork location in Southold

Shelter Island

Includes access to our Shelter Island location right in town

Includes access to our Sag Harbor (Mill Creek), Three Mile Harbor, and Montauk locations

Weekday (Mon-Thurs) or Month Of August

Across Locations

Please inquire to book

Partial Season Membership

25% discount!

Includes access from July 5 through Labor Day. 

Please inquire to book 

How Peconic Boat Club Works

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Our Southold location is on Route 25 in Southold. This location is easily accessible from Jamesport, Mattituck, Cutchogue, Southold, Greenport and Orient. If you are coming from Western or Central Long Island, we recommend visiting this location.

Our Montauk location is located inside Montauk Yacht Club at 32 Star Island Rd, Montauk, NY 11954. This location is easily accessible from anywhere in Montauk, as well as East Hampton and Amagansett.

We offer service throughout Shelter Island. Pick ups are available at Sunset Beach, the Pridwin Hotel, During Harbor as well as at home pick up anywhere on the Island. For at home pick up please contact our  Southold Location

Noyack (Mill Creek)

Our Noyack location is at 3253 Noyac Rd inside Mill Creek Marina. This location is easily accessible from Southampton, Water Mill, Wainscott, Bridgehampton, Sag Harbor, East Hampton, Sagaponack, Hampton Bays and Montauk.

East Hampton

Our East Hampton location is at 215 Three Mile Harbor – Hog Creek Rd. This location is easily accessible from Sag Harbor, Water Mill, Wainscott, Amagansett, Bridgehampton, Sagaponack and Montauk.

We have a boat for you

Enjoy unlimited access to our fleet of Club boats all summer long, 7 days a week. Plan your day with a variety of time blocks including full days, half days, and extended evening hours. Need a ride? We’ll pick you up!

Activities gallore

Explore everything the East End and South Fork has to offer from seaside dining, relaxing beaches to historic landscapes and beautiful villages. Not interested in a calm relaxed ride? Jump on in and spend your day tubing or water skiing!

Safety first

Your membership  comes with safety in mind and includes 5 hours of introductory lessons with one of our captains. No experience? No problem, we prepare you for your time on the water.

In the event that you do need additional help on the water your membership comes with Sea Tow and assistance from our support team.

• Season starts mid May and ends mid September 
• Access to our entire boat rental fleet, including new luxury bowriders and center consoles.
• Streamlined check in process that gets you out on the water faster
• North Fork, Shelter Island, Sag Harbor, East Hampton, and Montauk memberships are available. Multi-location memberships are also available.
• Does not include fuel or optional pickup/drop-off fees at custom locations. 
• Membership cost due in full at sign up. 
• Cancellation policy up until 4/15 with a 90% refund after which the full amount is nonrefundable.
• Members can book half day, full day, and evening sunset reservations. 
• Manage your reservations through our online portal or by calling our office open seven days a week during the Summer.
• $2,000 security deposit required. 
• Member’s and/or any Operator must be at least 21 years old
• New York State Boaters Safety Certificate and valid driver’s license is required for all Boat Club members or operators*
• Membership is bound to a single individual and their spouse. He/she must be present on board the boat and at check-in/checkout.
• *You can get a NY State Boating License online from http://boat-ed.com
• Safety is our number one concern whenever renting equipment. Reckless, negligent or ignorant operation of a boat can result in injury or death of you, your passengers or other people who are out enjoying the water. For this reason, we take safety very seriously and we try to pass this on to our customers.
• All boat club members will receive an extensive safety and operation briefing before getting out on the water for their first rental of the season. We require that our customers have previous experience operating a boat. First time operators will be required to hire a boating instructor before they are able to rent. A full safety packet is included in your rental and is required to be reviewed and understood before the rental begins.
• We reserve the right to cancel any membership at any time due to negligent operation. All Boat Club Membership fees are non-refundable and will be forfeited.

Boat rentals, boat leases, boat club and boat lessons provided by Peconic Water Sports LLC at its Southold, East Hampton, Montauk and Sag Harbor (Noyac) locations are serviced by Peconic Boat Rental LLC. Peconic Water Sports LLC and Peconic Boat Rental LLC are all separate and independent legal entities.

Peconic Water Sports LLC is a New York limited liability company that markets and promotes the customer services of Peconic Boat Rental LLC. It does not provide boat rentals, boat leases, and boat lessons services to customers. Peconic Water Sports LLC does not control or manage, or have any ownership interest in Peconic Boat Rental LLC nor does it have any authority to represent or bind Peconic Boat Rental LLC in any way.

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A Fight Over Yachts Is a Battle for the Soul of the North Fork

Thousands of residents in the hamlet of Mattituck say a plan to build storage for 88 yachts would destroy the environment and the character of the area.

By Debra Kamin

Debra Kamin spent three days on the North Fork of Long Island to report this story, speaking to residents, business owners and environmentalists.

Like the tongue of a snake, Long Island’s eastern edge splits into two distinct tines. To the south lies the cluster of affluent villages known as the Hamptons. To the north is a bucolic strip of farmland that prides itself on its blue-collar roots.

The lines are blurring in recent years, drawn anew by an influx of new residents who fled Manhattan during Covid and never returned. Boutique hotels and craft cocktail bars that cater to them have popped up, and homes are selling for 50 percent more since the pandemic. And in the tiny hamlet of Mattituck, a marina owner now plans to strip a hillside of 600 trees and remove hundreds of millions of pounds of sand to make way for 88 yachts on the edge of the hamlet’s tidal inlet.

Longtime locals see the plan as not just a threat to their fragile coastal environment, but a battle over the character of the entire North Fork of Long Island.

Opponents in this hamlet of fewer than 5,000 people have collected more than 3,000 signatures on a petition against the proposal. “People are starting to cannibalize this place. They want to make it the Hamptons,” said Stephen Boscola, an accountant whose family home sits directly above the site of the proposed development. Their back deck overlooks a forested hillside that will be destroyed if the project continues.

But the marina owner turned developer isn’t a new transplant from Manhattan. He’s one of their own.

Jeff Strong, 66, has lived in Mattituck since he was a boy and is president of Strong’s Marine, a family business that sells boats and operates commercial marinas. Strong’s Marine has been in his family for three generations. He is seeking approval from the area’s planning board to build two massive sheds for indoor yacht storage on the grounds of his yacht center.

Mr. Strong estimates it will cost him more than $5 million to clear the hill, truck out the sand and then build the two 45-foot-tall storage sheds, each around 50,000 square feet. The yacht storage facility, he said, will offer heated indoor winter storage that fills a gap in the market for wealthy boaters from Hamptons communities like Sag Harbor and Amagansett, as well as Westchester County and Connecticut, and will put up to $65,000 in property taxes and $474,000 in sales taxes into the Town of Southold’s coffers each year.

“We’re confident there’s market demand for us to add another 88 yachts, and when it comes to the funding, we could absolutely do both buildings right from the get-go,” Mr. Strong said in an interview at his yacht center. The site currently offers outdoor storage for 15 commercial fishing boats, and both outdoor and unheated indoor storage for up to 100 yachts. He declined to share his current prices, but said he anticipates he will be able to charge at least 25 percent more for heated indoor winter storage.

Locals opposed to the project say wealthy yacht owners from across the sound should find somewhere else to park their vessels in the winter. “We’re creating a North Fork problem for a non-North Fork issue,” said Bridget Elkin, founding agent of Compass Real Estate’s North Fork office. She said that other developers were surely watching, and would be quick to swoop in next if the plan moves forward. “If the planning board is willing to approve projects that don’t benefit the community, it shifts the balance of what people come to the North Fork for,” she added.

Some residents of Mattituck have accused Mr. Strong of a bait-and-switch, suggesting his goal is not long-term profit from the storage of yachts, but immediate gain from the sale of the valuable sand.

High-quality sand is a valuable natural resource that can sell for between $15 and $50 per cubic yard, meaning Strong’s Marine could net between $2 million and more than $6 million after leveling the hillside. When questioned about the potential profit, Mr. Strong said the sand was not worth more than $1.5 million, and he expected the removal and trucking alone to cost him about $1 million. He also points out that much of the sand is not native to the environment; it was placed there in the 1960s by the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers as part of a dredging project on the inlet.

Regardless, excavation of minerals in New York State requires a Mined Land Reclamation Permit, which Mr. Strong does not have. But there is a loophole: Excavations performed as part of construction projects are generally exempt.

“It’s a great way to monetize that hill,” said Mr. Boscola, who has been at the helm of the protests.

Earlier in May, Mr. Boscola and his parents, David and Donna Boscola, donned pins and blue ribbons that signaled their opposition to the project, and joined a packed town-hall meeting that dragged on for nearly four hours. The Town, which encompasses Mattituck, has scheduled a second town hall on the issue for June 5, and is accepting written comments about the project’s potential environmental impact through July 10. The planning board will later make a decision on whether to allow the project to proceed.

Environmentalists worry the project would have a disastrous ricochet effect on natural life in the Mill Road preserve, a 27-acre, taxpayer-funded patch of beech and oak trees that is home to hundreds of deer, birds and other species.

The potential site of the storage sheds abuts the preserve, and though Mr. Strong has promised to plant at least 185 new trees after the hill is leveled, environmentalists say the project would destroy the habitat and invite invasive plants.

“You’re going to have a cascade effect that will come into this public space,” said Louise Harrison, a conservation biologist who works for Save the Sound , a local environmental action group. “This forest was a public investment. And to allow a private individual to destroy a public space seems so grievously wrong.”

Other residents complained that months of 18-wheelers rumbling down the North Fork’s residential roads would disrupt their quality of life.

To Mr. Boscola, whose grandparents built the five-bed, two-and-a-half-bath home that sits in the cross hairs of Mr. Strong’s plans, a proposed development for large yachts on an inlet used daily by clammers and commercial fishermen comes down to the soul of the North Fork.

“Everybody has different concerns. For some people, it’s the trucks. For others, it’s because they appreciate the forest they live next to. But really, I think people are just tired of everybody trying to seize the North Fork,” he said.

Debra Kamin covers real estate for The Times. More about Debra Kamin

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Peconic Bay Yacht Club

The boat is docked at the east side of the Marine Basin, behind the Peconic Bay Yacht Club.

64300 Main Road

Southold, NY 11971

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Capt Rob Lehnert

Cell # : 516-662-6382

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North Fork Summer Camps

• May 21, 2023

Welcome to the North Fork of Long Island, where adventure awaits at our summer camps! With a wide range of fun and enriching activities, our camps offer the perfect opportunity for children of all ages to learn, grow, and make new friends. From outdoor adventures like sailing, swimming, and hiking to arts and crafts, music, and sports, our camps provide a vibrant and exciting environment that will keep kids engaged and entertained all summer long. Come join us and explore the natural beauty of the North Fork while making unforgettable memories. Whether you’re a local or just visiting, our camps are open to everyone and we can’t wait to welcome you.!

Dorothy P Flint 4-H Camp 3186 Sound Avenue, Riverhead, NY 11901 631-727-9762

*Contact the camp for current rates and registration The Dorothy P Flint 4-H Camp is a 140 acre co-ed overnight camp and day camp for campers ages 5-16. The camp is accredited by the American Camp Association and licensed and inspected by the Suffolk County Department of Health. Sleepaway Camp   |  Ages 8 – 16 Flint Day Camp   |  Campers entering 1st grade and not ready to sleep-away

East End Arts Camp 141 East Main Street, Riverhead, NY 11901 631-369-2171

East End Arts offers a Kids Summer Camp that features eight individual weeks of creative art and music learning programs and activities for those ages 5-10. Full day and half day options are available. Students will become immersed in art, theater, music, and dance all under the umbrella of a different literature theme each summer. East End Arts also offers a music camp and fine arts camp for those ages 8-14.  Morning and afternoon extended care options are available as well.

2023 Summer Schedule : Summer Kids Camp – Camp C.I.A (Create – Interpret – Ask) | $450/$225  each week 8 to 10 July 10th – July 14th   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  Going Places, by Paul & Peter Reynolds (thinking outside the box) A celebration of creative spirit and thinking outside the box. July 17th – July 21st   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  What Do You Do With an Idea? by Kobe Yamada (creativity in ideas) This book looks at how one brilliant idea and the child who helps to bring it into the world can come to life as the child’s confidence grows. July 24th – July 28th   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  A Little Bit of Oomph, by Barnie Saltzberg (make ordinary extraordinary) A Little Bit of Oomph! teaches the invaluable lesson of throwing your heart into whatever you’re doing and trying just a little bit harder. July 31st – August 4th   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  Lunchtime for a Purple Snake, by Harriet Ziefert (joy of painting and color) A little bit about color and composition, in a fun tale reveals the joy and discovery painting brings to artists young and old. August 7th – 11th   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  Weslandia, by Paul Fleischman (creative kid creates civilization) An amazing picture book full of creativity, demonstrating how with a little imagination you can create anything and tell the story. August 14th – 18th   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  They all Saw a Cat, by Brendan Wenzel (we are all unique) An engaging and thought-provoking tale on lessons about how everyone has a unique perspective. August 21st – August 25th   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  Mistakes are How I Learn, by Kiara Wilson This story was developed to engage children, and empower them with the affirmations to overcome obstacles. To help let them know that they are not alone when facing defeat. August 28th – September 1st   |  Full day: 9a – 3p  |  Half day: 9a – 12p or 12p – 3 Book of the Week:  The Year we Learned to Fly, by Jacqueline Woodson. A tale passed down through generations to harness the skill of quiet meditation to show the world the strength and resilience of their beautiful and brilliant minds.

Summer Fine Arts Camp with Kenneth Jackson –  $450 each week |  Ages 10 – 14 Drawing/Adding Color  |  July 10th – July 14th  |  Full day: 9a – 3p A week of creativity and foundation building as we engage in fun projects while learning new methods and techniques of drawing and painting. Campers will gain skills of perspective, proportion and composition, while working with color, light, shape and texture. By the end of the week each camper will create a portfolio of works that will be displayed in an exhibit on the last day of camp. Register early: enrollment is limited to 15 students.

Painting/How to Create a Portrait   |  July 24th – July 28th  |  Full day: 9a – 3p A week of creativity and foundation building as we engage in fun projects while learning new methods and techniques of painting. Campers learn to add color, light, shape, and texture to their works. All projects are appropriate for any skill level, and the teacher works alongside each student. By the end of the week each camper will create a portfolio of works that will be displayed in an exhibit on the last day of camp. Register early: enrollment is limited to 15 students.

Mixed Media/Sculpture   |  August 7th – August 11th  |  Full day: 9a – 3p A week of creativity and foundation building as we engage in fun projects while learning new methods and techniques in the use of mixed media.This camp allows students to create a variety of projects while building skills working in painting, drawing, collage, sculpture, printmaking, and assemblage. Students will create an exhibit of their works on the last day of camp. Register early enrollment is limited to 15 students.

Drawing & Painting Fundamentals   |  August 21st – August 25th  |  Full day: 9a – 3p A week of creativity and foundation building as we engage in fun projects while learning new methods and techniques used in drawing and painting. Campers learn about perspective, proportion, and composition. All projects are appropriate for any skill level, and the teacher works alongside each student. By the end of the week each camper will create a portfolio of works that will be displayed in an exhibit on the last day of camp. Register early: enrollment is limited to 15 students.

Summer Music Band Camp –  $450 each week  |  Ages 8 – 14 Music of the World Performance Camp  |  Full day: 9a – 3p July 17th – July 21st  |  July 31st – August 4th This week-long Group Performance Camp offers an opportunity to play alongside your peers. All instruments are welcome, especially, electric guitar, bass, drums, vocals, and piano. Explore multiple genres through percussion, full band, and vocal performances. Students should be able to play at least one instrument at an intermediate level, or be able to sing. This is a great camp to try out new forms of music, new instruments, and bond with fellow music lovers. At the end of each camp week, the band performs live!

Star Power Vocal Camp   |  Full day: 9a – 3p August 7th – 11th  |  August 21st – August 25th This week-long group vocal camp offers campers an opportunity to sing all their favorite songs along with their peers. The campers work on all aspects of performance, harmonies, mic control, belting, tone, and timing. They will also learn exercises and techniques to help create strong and healthy vocals. They will sing along to tracks as well as acapella. All campers enjoy outdoor play and some arts and crafts related to their performance. At the end of each camp week, the group performs live!

Ukulele Group Camp   |  Full day: 9a – 3p August 14th – 18th  |  August 28th – September 1st A creative week learning the basics of the Ukulele, including rhythm, chords and strumming. Add some fun vocals and play along with others, while learning new music and gaining new skills. Open to beginners and beginner/intermediate levels. Students are required to bring their own Ukulele.  There is a group performance at the finish of the camp week, on Fridays.

Hedgewood Farms Pony Camp 4000 Main Road, Laurel, NY 11948 631-926-3118  |  [email protected]

*Call or email for more information and to register Pony Camp at Hedgewood Farm in Laurel offers a beautiful way for children to learn about horses and continue their education. You will learn safety zones around horses and on the farm, basic horsemanship, and equine caretaking skills like feeding, bathing and tacking. You can also practice riding skills while riding on one of our experienced school horses.

Long Island Aquarium 431 East Main Street, Riverhead, NY 11901 631-208-9200 ext. 426 (Please call for reservations)

Long Island Aquarium’s Summer Adventure Days provides hands-on learning and full-on fun for children of all ages during school-year breaks and summer vacation. Separate programs provide age-appropriate learning and activities for children ages 3 – 16.  After care is available from 2p to 5p. Pricing: Add $199 for 1 full week, per child. You must register for after care when you register for camp. First come, first serve.

Summer 2023 Adventure Day: Shark Bait   |  Ages 3&4  |  $80 members/ $90 non-members *includes 1 parent/guardian. June 19th – 20th  |  9a – 12p Budding marine scientists will investigate the aquarium using their 5 senses to learn and understand the animals around us. We will explore the different textures, patterns and sounds of each group of animals here at the aquarium, by petting and getting up close to them. Be ready to get wet as we romp through our interactive salt marsh. Craft activity each day.

Discoverers   |  Ages 4&5  |  $129 members / $149 non-members *includes 1 parent/guardian June 21st – 23rd  |  9a – 12p Hello Discoverers! We will take part in a scavenger hunt to learn about some amazing secrets held by our incredible animals. We’ll take to the high seas on the Atlantis Explorer Tour Boat to search for native plants and animals. We’ll meet some perfect pets that can make for amazing companions. Discover amazing truths about our animals as well as of those found in our own backyards. Craft activity and snack provided each day.

Winged Wonders!   |  Ages 6-8  |  $315 members / $359 non-member Two Sessions Available: July 3rd – 7th or July 17th – 21st  |  9a -2p This adventure will explore all the animals that fly through the air and swim in the sea, from bats to penguins. You’ll meet a penguin and explore our bug laboratory. Venture down the Peconic River on the Atlantis Explorer Tour Boat and see animals in their natural habitats. Learn what our bats’ diet consists of and what plants will attract butterflies in your own yard.

Ahoy Pirates!   |  Ages 6-8  |  $315 members / $359 non-member Two Sessions Available: July 10th – 14th or August 7th -11th  |  9a – 2p We will follow a treasure map and find all sorts of booty along the way. We’ll meet some common pirate pets and uncover gems and jewels for our treasure chest. Experience the life of a pirate in our one-of-a-kind setting, the Long Island Aquarium, where you’ll get up close and personal to some of our amazing animals. Craft activity each day.

Shark Pups   |  Ages 6-8  |  $299 members / $349 non-members July 24th – 28th  |  9a – 2p This shark based experience for our younger shark enthusiasts will include: an Atlantis Explorer Tour Boat trip, shark trivia and feeding our stingrays. Explore the sharks around the aquarium with a fun scavenger hunt and learn about all of our sharks here from egg to adult during our shark themed adventure. Craft activity each day.

Animal Superheroes   |  Ages 8-10  |  $345 members / $390 non-members Two Sessions Available: July 3rd -7th or August 7th – 11th  |  9a – 2p POW, BOOM, BAM How can an octopus turn itself invisible in the blink of an eye? How can a frog grow claws like Wolverine? Explore the aquarium and visit the insect lab and preservatory to get a closer look at our many  superheroes.  Learn about wings while meeting a penguin and our owls. Cruise the Peconic River collecting specimens aboard the Tour Boat in this great adventure.

Casting for Careers   |  Ages 9-11  |  $345 members / $390 non-members Two Sessions Available: July 10th – 14th or July 31st – August 4th  |  9a – 2p There’s a whole world to explore…underwater! Participants will explore all the ins and outs of the aquarium. We will explore what it is like to be an aquarist, trainer, ornithologist and more, through activities designed to show your children what it would be like to have a career at an aquarium. Hold a turtle and pet a dragon. Take a ride on our Tour Boat, meet horseshoe crabs, seine for fish in local waters. Your child will visit our butterflies, birds and bugs garden while learning how important their roles are in their own backyard.

Sea Lion Scouts   |  Ages 10-12  |  $365 members / $405 non-members Two Sessions Available: June 26th – 30th or July 17th – 21st  |  9a – 2p Go behind the scenes and see what it takes to be a marine mammal trainer! Create enrichment toys for our monkeys and watch a porcupine feeding & training session!  You’ll take a trip on our Tour Boat, participate in a special training session with an animal ambassador and take a Selfie with a Sea Lion.

Shark Explorers   |  Ages 9-11  |  $325members / $375 non-members July 24th – 28th  |  9a – 2p This experience is Sharktastic! This shark based camp includes watching a shark dissection, feeding our stingrays and more. Activities and lessons will be based around our very cool shark inhabitants and the prey that they hunt. Learn about all of our sharks, what they eat, myths and their adaptations.

Adventurers   |  Ages 12-14  |  $415 members / $460 non-members Two Sessions Available: June 26th – 30th or July 31st – August 4th  |  9a – 2p Try out some of the most exciting adventures that the aquarium has to offer. Your adventurer will kayak down the Peconic River and climb the rock wall. For the ultimate thrill, end the week with a dive into our 120,000 gallon shark tank! This experience is packed full of thrills and fun for your tween and teen!

Junior Aquarist   |  Ages 14-16  |  $450 members / $485 non-members August 14th – 18th  |  9a – 2p Ever wonder what it is like to work at an aquarium? Have you ever wanted to go behind the scenes and see what it takes to care for thousands of animals? This program has participants talk to our fish department staff as they fill you in on their cool projects like breeding fish, propagating coral and how they keep all of the tanks running. The junior aquarist will also  prepare food for our animals and go on a collecting trip, seining for fish and specimens off-site. Kids will also help set up and learn how to care for an aquarium of their own.

Mattituck Sailing Camp 9462 Peconic Bay Blvd, Mattituck, NY 11952 917-334-6639

Summer 2023:   June 26th – August 18th  |  Ages 5 – 18 *Call for rates, membership and registration Mattituck Sailing Camp is geared for sailors who want to learn how to sail a variety of different types of boats and learn new skills on the water. Run by the Mattituck Yacht Club , sailing camp programs are held daily throughout the summer. Campers will learn to rig and sail sailboats, tie knots, and learn water safety.  All sailors will learn to sail on a variety of different types of boats including: Optis, Sunfish, and 420’s. Sailing instruction and boats will vary based upon the camper’s experience and ability.

Multiple options are available for young sailors including the “season pass” of sailing all summer. Mattituck Yacht Club also offers 2, 3 or 4 week programs to fit in busy summer schedules.

Peconic Ballet Theatre Camp 71 East Main Street, Riverhead, NY 11901 631-591-1539

Peconic Ballet Theatre Camp is the perfect summer camp for young dancers and ballerinas. Programs include a summer ballet production and performance and musical theatre camp.

Summer 2023 : The Adventures of Dr. Seuss   |  Ages 4 – 5  |  $450 – $575 See the magic of “Dr. Seuss” come to life! Live performance opportunity. Appropriate for all ages and abilities. August 2nd – August 11th  |  9:30a – 11:30a Performance:  Friday, August 11th at Avram Theatre in Southampton Placement Auditions: Friday, May 19th Students 9 years old and younger do not have to attend placement auditions. Students 10 years of age and older must attend placement auditions *Upon registration, you with then be sent an audition time​ **Students must be registered before the date of the audition.

Musical Theatre Camp Become the ultimate triple treat! Students will take classes in Jazz, Tap, Acting and Voice! At the end of the week, students will perform a small, intimate, in-studio performance! For students of all abilities! Beginner Musical Theatre  |  Ages 4 – 5  |  $490 July 24th – July 28th  |  10a – 2p Intermediate Musical Theatre  |  Ages 6 – 8  |  $490 July 17th – July 21st  |  10a – 2p

Peconic Dunes 4-H Summer Camp 6375 Soundview Avenue, Southold, NY 11971 631-852-8629

Peconic Dunes 4-H Camp on Soundview Avenue in Southold is a day camp and sleepaway camp run by the Cornell Cooperative Extension of Suffolk County.

Overnight Camp  |  Ages 8- 15  |  $830/session Summer 2023 schedule: Session 1: June 25 – July 1  |  Session 2: July 2 – July 8  |  Session 3: July 9 – July 15 Session 4: July 16 – July 22  |  Session 5: July 23 – July 29  |  Session 6: July 30 – Aug 5 Session 7: Aug 6 – Aug 12  |  Session 8: Aug 13 – Aug 19 Campers have many opportunities to develop skills and acquire knowledge in a variety of educational and recreational activities including: environmental sciences, project BUILD, canoeing, kayaking, snorkeling, wilderness skills, backcountry cooking, fishing, archery, leadership skills, theater arts, music, multimedia, adventure trail, soccer, beach volleyball and more. Evening programs offer time for fun, fellowship and reflection and may include opening and closing campfires, talent shows, round robin activities, dance or other entertainment, and Turtle Games (Peconic Dunes’ version of color war).

Day Camp  |  Ages 6 – 13  |  $530 Drop off 8:35a –  8:55a  |  Pick up 5p Summer 2023 Schedule: Session 1: June 26 – June 30  |  Session 2: July 3 – July 7  |  Session 3: July 10 – July 14 Session 4: July 17 – July 21  |  Session 5: July 24 – July 28  |  Session 6: July 31 – Aug 4 Session 7: Aug 7 – Aug 11  |  Session 8: Aug 14 – Aug 18 Campers can experience a full range of classic and innovative camp activities on our lake and Sound waterfronts, athletic fields and woodlands including nature study, outdoor skills, arts and crafts, music, drama, team sports and more. Lunch and afternoon snack are included. Our Turtle Games Carnival happens every Friday, weather permitting, during which campers take turns running a carnival game and then enjoying the games created by other campers.

Mini Camp  |  Ages 7 – 12  |  $395/session July 2nd – July 5th This program is for FIRST TIME CAMPERS who are not sure about a full week at camp. In the mini camp, campers will participate in a shorter week. Youth are challenged to develop their skills and knowledge in our numerous activities such as: STEM, kayaking, snorkeling, wilderness skills, back-country cooking, fishing, archery, leadership skills, theater arts, music, multimedia, adventure trail, soccer, and basketball. Each evening has a special event planned including: opening campfires, scavenger hunt, and Turtle Games (Peconic Dunes’ version of color war).

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April 10, 2024 newsletter.

Spring break on the East End of Long Island offers a perfect opportunity for families to unwind and create unforgettable memories together. From outdoor adventures to arts and crafts workshops, there’s something for every interest and energy level. Start planning your getaway now and explore the available children’s programs designed to make this spring break one to remember.

April 3rd, 2024 Newsletter

As flowers start to bloom, springtime on the East End brings a vibrant array of music series, festivals, and performances spanning both the North and South Forks. Whether your musical palate leans towards classical or contemporary, there’s something for everyone to enjoy. Explore Shelter Island for their captivating Shelter Island Friends of Music series, or venture across the region for concerts from the Rites of Spring Music Festival.

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